Damned if you do…

by Laura on November 15, 2009

As the saying goes…it seems some people are destined to be wound up in a web of complications. I was ordered off the diet by my doctor after my blood pressure started rising. I’m at risk for Autonomic Dysreflexia and the protocol was too tough on me, I guess.

I’m still going to continue posting information about it and will invite some guest bloggers to come and share their experience. Please understand that, as with all ways of eating, some things will work for you and others won’t. It’s up to you and your doctor to work out what works and what doesn’t.

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The photo I never wanted to take by Lindsay Loo Brush.One thing that helped me to feel a bit better about myself is the fact that apparently, there are some physical manifestations in the formation of a person’s body when they have an inherited disposition to obesity.

I now feel that while yes, I’m the one who put every single calorie of food into my mouth, I’ve been built that way. Yes, much of this food addiction is psychological, but at the same time, my body was tuned to behave that way.

From the book:

As a basis for our discussion we postulate that obesity in all its many forms is due to an abnormal functioning of some part of the body and that every ounce of abnormally accumulated fat is always the result of the same disorder of certain regulatory mechanisms. Persons suffering from this particular disorder will get fat regardless of whether they eat excessively, normally or less than normal. A person who is free of the disorder will never get fat, even if he frequently overeats.

Those in whom the disorder is severe will accumulate fat very rapidly, those in whom it is moderate will gradually increase in weight and those in whom it is mild may be able to keep their excess weight stationary for long periods. In all these cases a loss of weight brought about by dieting, treatments with thyroid, appetite-reducing drugs, laxatives, violent exercise, massage, or baths is only temporary and will be rapidly regained as soon as the reducing regimen is relaxed. The reason is simply that none of these measures corrects the basic disorder.

Before I get to the physical aspects, I want to first go over the three types of fat that we carry:

  1. Visceral fat—the fat that surrounds the organs in the body.
  2. Intramuscular and subcutaneous fat—a fat that is stored to be drawn out when needed.
  3. Abnormal fat—these are the large amounts of fat that obese people accumulate and while there is potential for it to be used as fuel, it doesn’t happen because of the way it is stored.

When obese people try to diet in order to drop weight, they rid themselves of the first two types of fat, while the third one remains in place. Of the relatively small amount of people who do manage to drop it, most of them will regain it back because the true cause of the obesity hasn’t been resolved.

Dr. Simeon lists several physical characteristics of an obese person carrying the genetic predispositions. These are all signs that are present before puberty and weight-gain:

  • A disproportionately large size of the upper-two front teeth.
  • A dimple on both sides of the sacral bone, just above the buttocks.
  • When the arms are outstretched with the palms facing up, the forearms appear sharply angled outward.
  • The same applies to the legs, so the person is essentially knock-kneed.

As puberty sets in and weight starts to accumulate:

  • It begins to accumulate at the nape of the neck.
  • A triangular fatty bulge in front of the arm pit when the arms are held at their sides.
  • Stretch marks
  • A fat pad on the inside of the knees–a place where normal fat is never stored.

Clinical symptoms (though many other conditions can also cause them) include:

  • Frequent headaches
  • Rheumatic pains without any detectable bony abnormality.
  • A feeling of laziness and lethargy –both physical and mental.
  • Insomnia
  • Feeling of being hungry sometimes only 2 or 3 hours after a heavy meal.
  • Strong yearning for sugary or starchy foods.
  • Constipation and spastic or irritable bowels.
  • Menstrual disorders.

Save for the menstrual disorders, I have/had every single one of those signs. Interestingly, as far as my daughters go, it’s my older one (the slender one) seems to have inherited those traits while my younger, slightly pudgier daughter, has not. It will be interesting to see how they grow up in the future.

Returning once more to our sylphlike lady, we can say that a combination of some of these symptoms with a few of
the typical bodily signs is sufficient evidence to take her case seriously. A human figure, male or female, can only be
judged in the nude; any opinion based on the dressed appearance can be quite fantastically wide off the mark, and I
feel myself driven to the conclusion that apart from frankly psychotic patients such as cases of anorexia nervosa; a
morbid weight fixation does not exist. I have yet to see a patient who continues to complain after the figure has been
rendered normal by adequate treatment.

Also:

Obese patients only feel physically well as long as they are stationary or gaining weight. They may feel guilty, owing to the lethargy and indolence always associated with obesity. They may feel ashamed of what they have been led to believe is a lack of control. They may feel horrified by the appearance of their nude body and the tightness of their clothes. But they have a primitive feeling of animal content which turns to misery and suffering as soon as they make a resolute attempt to reduce. For this there are sound reasons.

In the first place, more caloric energy is required to keep a large body at a certain temperature than to heat a small body. Secondly the muscular effort of moving a heavy body is greater than in the case of a light body. The muscular effort consumes calories which must be provided by food. Thus, all other factors being equal, a fat person requires more food than a lean one. One might therefore reason that if a fat person eats only the additional food his body requires he should be able to keep his weight stationary. Yet every physician who has studied obese patients under rigorously controlled conditions knows that this is not true. Many obese patients actually gain weight on a diet which is calorically deficient for their basic needs. There must thus be some other mechanism at work.

Did you exhibit these signs as a child? How do you feel knowing that genetics may play a greater role than previously expected? You may decide that all this is pure hogwash and you’re perfectly in your right to think so, but for me, it makes perfect sense and actually answers many questions I’ve always had about myself.

If you’re looking for a possible way to lose weight and want to follow me on this journey before jumping in yourself, I once again invite you to follow this thread by rss feed (at the top) or by subscribing via email (see right).

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How to Accomplish Almost Anything!

by Laura on October 19, 2009

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If you’re reading this,  you are fortunate enough to be in a society of wealth. The world truly is your oyster as you have access to libraries, computers and even more importantly, the Internet. You know how small the world has become and can access information as you need it. If you’d like some perspective, take a look at “If the world were a village of 100 people.”

Learning isn’t about being taught, learning is about knowing how to access the information you need. If you teach one thing to yourself and your children, let it be the skill of accessing information.

Be proactive in your education.

It’s easy to let issues fester and wait for someone to take the lead for things to get done. Part of taking full control of your life is getting up and taking the initiative instead of procrastinating. No one cares more about you than you do, so how you get through this lifetime is completely up to you!

You might not be a student in school, but as long as you’re alive, you are learning. You’re ‘education’ is what you make of it and if you wait for someone to speak up and spoon-feed the information to you, you’ll be loosing out on time and a chance to explore.

If you want something, go after it. As long as you expect others to take the first step, you’ll find life to be sadly disappointing.

Check out what Steve Pavlina has to add to the topic of proactivity.

Speak to yourself.

You don’t need to start muttering to yourself aloud so that other people think you’re a lunatic, but you do need to start asking your internal-self some questions to get things accomplished.

I’ve learned to literally ask myself “now what’s next?” Sounds strange, but I’ve managed to find solutions to some of my biggest problems this way. Often, taking purposeful steps like the one just mentioned allow you to find the next step in whatever process you need to take.

Case in point: I’m currently waiting while my provincial government drags its feet over a piece of subsidized equipment I need. I finally decided to contact my MLA yesterday and voice my concerns. His manager just emailed me (on a Sunday evening!) and made arrangements to get get some signatures so that they can look into the matter. That was fast! Imagine how long I might be otherwise waiting if I had not taken this step–now I have someone on my side! I’ll definitely keep you updated on what happens.

The very action of taking a quick break and asking yourself where to go from there (making a mental plan) allows you to focus on what your next priority should be to assess the situation. You might be surprised and actually start to like your inner-self!

Think Outside the Box.

The solution to your problem may be either staring at you in the face, or something completely unrelated to the thought process at hand. For example, would you ever think of using a Bounce dryer sheet to repel mosquitoes?

A good exercise I used to give to my English students in Saudi Arabia:

List 50 things you can do with a spoon.

Sounds easy? Give it a try! It’s easy for the first 10-20 ideas, then you really have to start searching for answers. You have to start getting creative and thinking outside of that proverbial box to be able to complete the list. My students were so used to being spoon-fed their entire lives that in my 6 years there, not a single student was able to complete this list–yet I usually have about 15% of my students able complete it.

Imagine your situation from the perspective of another person and see where you can make changes, or where you can try to bend your mind around old concepts to make them work to your advantage. Need a door jam? Think spoon! Something to pry that jar open? (spoon) What about keeping your beloved cat out of the catnip? (spoon booby trap!)

It’s ok to ask for help.

Asking for help is fine; I’ll be the first to admit that I do it all the time. However, there’s a difference on asking for help, and waiting around for help to pop up.

You may need to have your cracked window repaired, so ask around for assistance. But if in the meantime, you figure  that using krazy glue to seal the crack and scratching the glass at the ends of the crack to keep the crack from extending, then go for it! You’ve found a solution, even if temporary.

Don’t be afraid of failure.

None of us are perfect! Failure is part of learning and it’s a great (though sometimes unpleasant) way of learning. As long as you don’t do anything worthy of a Darwin Award, you’ll probably be okay.

When all else fails…

Everyone knows how much of a Youtube fan I am! I’ve used it to learn origami, how to crochet, and how to solve many problems around the house! When I was in the hospital recently, I found more info about how to deal with my situation than I did from the hospital staff! Just don’t listen to this guy!

Some parting wisdom.

There’s a lot of truth in what they say about WD40 and duct tape!

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Jumping on the HCG-Protocol Bandwagon

by Laura on October 17, 2009

I admit that I have quite a lot of weight to loose. It’s been the bane of my existence for most of my life. No matter how much I tried, I was unable to take off significant weight; the only time I was really successful, I wasn’t even trying!

My attempts at weight loss began when I was 12 and weighing-in at 130lbs. My paediatrician told my mom (who also had to deal with weight issues) that I needed to loose weight. No sooner than that was said, I was enrolled into Weight Watchers alongside her.

Week after week, I’d go in, get weighed, and sleep through another meeting. I never did receive my 10-lbs-lost ribbon, so that was obviously a flop.

After high school, I went to Ecuador as an exchange student, I lost a significant amount of weight, despite their food often being fried. I came back to Canada weighing in at about 140 lbs, but started gaining it back again until I got to where I am now, at 106 kg (233 lbs).

I tried the Bernstein diet for diabetics, Atkins, and South Beach. All of them are excellent diets, but they weren’t something I was able to stick to.

A friend of mine first told me about the HCG protocol when she decided to try it. I was more than a little worried and thought she was being foolish at wanting to start such a strange ‘diet.’ What I later learned though, is that it’s not so strange and it does make sense. Rather than a diet, this is a protocol which helps your hypothalamus get re-booted.

She is completing the second round of this protocol, along with many of her family members and she looks great! She reports that she doesn’t feel hungry despite the 500 calories she’s allowed per day.

There are several pros and cons to this diet:

Pros:

  1. It’s VERY effective.
  2. You loose fat where you need to loose it.
  3. Most people report feeling great while on the protocol.
  4. It’s a quick way to loose weight if you’re willing to dedicate the 6-9 weeks you have to stick with it.
  5. Once you finish this protocol, your metabolism has been rebooted and this becomes your new baseline weight, you shouldn’t regain it.

Cons:

  1. You need to take a daily injection of the HCG hormone.
  2. It is a VERY strict diet. If you can’t stick to it, don’t bother starting. ANY deviation will cause it to backfire.
  3. Psychological starvation is often a problem. You don’t feel hungry, but you WANT to eat!
  4. Depending on where you get your supplies, a round of the diet can cost anywhere from $50 to $2000.

One thing that is certain however, you should clear it with your doctor! There are clinics established all over the world with doctors willing to follow you up on this protocol, but this is usually NOT covered by insurance companies.

My plan is to begin this protocol after my next menstrual cycle (which is at the end of the month) because this factors in to how this diet works. My goal is to get under 200lbs this time, then do a second round a few months later to get below 170lbs. My goal weight is 140, but I’ll be happy with 170.

Over the next few days, I’ll explain how the creator of this protocol, Dr. Simeons designed this plan and why it works. I will keep track of my progress (or lack thereof) on this blog.

I hope to never look like this again:

me fat

I’d much rather be healthier, thank-you-very-much!

Please subscribe to my feed to stay posted on the updates!

This protocol is freely available for anyone to access, on the Pounds and Inches site. This is one of the things that sets this apart from diets: its freely available for anyone to access!

disclaimer: I take no responsibility over your actions. Any diet/or protocol you wish to try is at your own risk. I strongly suggest you first consult with a doctoc before undertaking any weight reduction program.

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Review: Start Your Own Blogging Business

by Laura on October 16, 2009

If you’re completely new to the blogging world, Start Your Own Blogging Business may be the book you need to learn the basics of producing a blog and earning an income from it. It’s simple-to-understand language and “get to the point” approach makes it an easy read with no fluff or beating around the bush. Everything is presented “as is” to assist you in starting a blog for profit.

By far, the most beneficial sections (in my opinion) are details on how to make a media kit for potential advertisers, and the business chapter which details the more ligistical parts of maintaining a blog that brings in income. Unfortunately, the author seems to have forgotten some links which, while they are obvious to the conventional blogger, will cause confusion for the novice.

Contents:

  • Chapter 1: Planning your blog
  • Chapter 2: Publishing your blog
  • Chapter 3: Profiting from your blog
  • Chapter 4: Becoming a business
  • Chapter 5: Final thoughts.

Total pages: 96


Note: this is NOT a paid review. I was not approached by anyone to do this review and I did not receive any compensation from it except through Amazon if you choose to buy it.

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Live the Life You’ve Imagined

by Laura on October 15, 2009

Morning Dew By Bonnie BonbonI was out-and-about this afternoon and decided to sacrifice a few minutes to browse the book store (thank God my daughters haven’t yet learned the fine-art of groaning!). You know how they always have these impulse-buy items at the checkout? Welllll…I spotted something which I couldn’t resist. It was a magnet.

I’m not a magnet collector, but I took one look at the saying on this magnet and just HAD to buy it. Despite it’s $6.99 price tag (MUCH more than I’d usually ever pay for a magnet), the quote on it drew my attention.

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you’ve imagined.

-Thoreau

Thoreau is the father of Civil Disobedience. He believed that we need to oppose those in power whom we believe are wronging us. How many of us have lived our lives according to societal norms instead of taking reign of our destinies as we feel they should be lived? How many of you languish in a stressed-out marriage ‘just-because-of-the-kids,’ or keep the same boring and rewardless-job ‘cuz you need the money?’

This was a big turning point in my life last spring. I was living according to how the people closest to me expected me to, not how I felt I needed to. When I finally broke free, I did so at a traumatic time in my life, but as I now look back, I wouldn’t dream of changing the decisions that I made.

As the first part of the quote states, ‘Go confidently!’ Don’t hesitate or look back, because that’s how you will stumble. Look ahead and think positively that what you did to change your life was the right thing. Sometime we’re presented with more than one path, and it’s up to evaluate the path we chose, but if we dwell on the ‘what ifs’ instead of the ‘what can be,’ we eventually end up spinning around in a catch-22.

So go ahead and evaluate your life. Is it the life you’ve dreamed of having? Or are you on that path out of sheer obligation? How can you break free of the proverbial shackles?

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2009 More Buyers Mastermind

by Laura on October 15, 2009

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If you’re looking for a way to boost your Internet presence and earn an income from blogging, I STRONGLY suggest you take a look at The 2009 More Buyers Mastermind. I signed up for them only 2 days ago, and have already received my investment back ten-fold! The price is going up though, so you might want to hurry!

From the site:

See all those pictures up there? Those are all people who were “new players” just a few short years ago. Some of them were on the scene already when I began (for example, I was one of Copyblogger’s first 600 blog subscribers in 2006 – he’s at 74,811+ now). Some of them are new faces for 2009 and seemingly came out of nowhere. But they all have something in common:they’re all growing their businesses a hell of a lot faster than I have this year.

First that made me mad (and I’ll bet you’ve shared that same twinge of frustration when others are growing faster than you are, no matter how noble we all aim to be). But then it made me curious:what were these people doing that I wasn’t doing to get their businesses, their blogs and their bottom lines growing so rapidly? So in a flurry of emails, phone calls and tweets I began grilling them for some answers.

Yeah, yeah, I know there’s a lot of hype, but as someone who has paid and seen the inside of this, IT’S WORTH THE MONEY!!! Yes, I admit that I get a commission for referring you but know what? 1. This is part of what this site is about: making ourselves self-sufficient and 2. That’s what pays me back for the costs of this site and puts food on the table for my children. If you ever catch me lying or being dishonest to you about something, I invite you to call me on it!

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Personal Development for Lazy People.

by Laura on October 14, 2009

According to my husband of 8 years (who is incidentally now my ex-husband), I am lazy.

I worked my rear end off for years, but because results were not to his liking, I had (in his mind), done nothing. This is what I began to coin as the Lazy Wife Syndrome…that was also the beginning of my deciding to take life into my own hands. Given that I have medical conditions that would make Schwarzenegger feel weak as a kitten, it has ticked me off that he never understood that facet.

…thus is born the Personal Development Blog for Lazy People, a place where we can learn how to get through life with minimal waste, to become efficient instead of just “looking busy” to please other people, and to make a living with as little effort as actually necessary.

My inspiration comes from Timothy Ferris, author of the book “The 4-Hour Work Week.” He advocates using simple techniques to avoid wasting time needlessly and honestly, I kind of like that point of view. No, not because I’m really lazy, but more so because I have better things to do with my time than sitting on my hands watching the world go by.

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